RESTORING YOUR SEXUALITY 21 – Sexually deviant behaviour cont’d


And the learning continues……..

FETISHES

Fetishes are a result of sexual stimulation being connected to an object. 

Here is an example; a mother is always running around in her slip or maybe in her bra and panties.

She doesn’t realize it but her son is becoming more sexually aware. He begins to become sexually stimulated. As an adult, he has a lingerie fetish. It can be from the degree that he just likes to be stimulated by looking at lingerie ads to the degree that he is breaking into women’s homes to steal their lingerie so he can masturbate with it.

There will be other issues which play into the degree of the fetish and the sexual imprinting.

People can have fetishes with certain body parts. Feet are a very common body part fetish.

Here is another example, a woman has a facial hair fetish. Facial hair on men arouses her.
She is not attracted to men without it. She needs to be able to touch or feel facial hair to be aroused sexually. She was molested by a father. He had a beard that he would rub it against her vagina. She was so young, she doesn’t even have memory of it, but the sexual imprinting still created a fetish.

I [Amanda Buys] have ministered to several people with food fetishes. Certain foods were connected to their sexual imprinting. Sight or smell of those foods could create sexual stimulation. Sometimes the person needed to have food as a part of their sexual experience to feel stimulated.

The Lord will help identify the roots of fetishes and perversion. Many times the people are unaware but the Lord knows exactly how and when the imprinting happened.

 

BESTIALITY

It is sexual activity with animals. It is addressed in Leviticus 18:23. The Lord tells us that we are not to mate with an animal because it defiles us and it is perversion. Many times you find bestiality in family lines where there was animal sacrifice, major sins of the occult, or nature worship. They will need deliverance of an animal spirit.

Sometimes their children will act more like animals than children. They will be totally out of control and animalistic in their behaviours. Sometimes it is just the result of a lack of discipline but it can be the sin of bestiality in the family line.

It can happen in families that were raised in very isolated farm life to ones living in a city apartment with a pet.

Once again sexual imprinting created by sex with animals will create a desire for that experience.

Some people, as they become adults try to avoid the behaviour, but embrace  pornography that portrays bestiality to satisfy the desire. Others will just give into the desire and may even force their partner to participate in the perversion.

It is an extremely devastating experience for a person to have been forced to participate in bestiality. Their sense of shame and unworthiness is tremendous.

They usually have extreme self anger and self loathing because they allowed themselves to be put in that position. Shame is a great barrier whenever you deal with bestiality but it becomes even greater when the person participated against their will.

Credits – Amanda Buys

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